One of the first arguments I had after I got married was about housework. I didn’t like doing it much, and my former husband said he didn’t want to do it either.
“Our poll found that men and women have different opinions about being organized and dealing with clutter,” Lisa Lee Freeman, editor-in-chief of ShopSmart, said in a statement.When it comes to common tasks including driving, watching TV, or remembering birthdays and appointments, returning items to their proper place is the top point of contention between men and women. ShopSmart’s poll found that when it comes to putting things away properly, women were a lot more likely to report being different from their partner, 69 percent, than men, 51 percent.
As to who’s the messiest in their relationship, 26 percent of women in the survey admitted that they were the messier partner compared to 39 percent of men who claimed to be.
ShopSmart’s poll also reported on what people do when their partner leaves stuff out of place:
- 67 percent said they put the items away or cleaned them up themselves.
- 21 percent ask their spouse or partner to straighten up.
- 19 percent leave things as is until their partner puts them away.
- Women are twice as likely as men to dump messy or out-of-place items into their spouse or partner’s personal space.
In the survey, most men and women agreed on the two things that drive them crazy when they’re out of place: keys and bills.
The March 2013 issue of ShopSmart offers a report on organizing and more survey results from its national poll of about 500 couples about their attitudes toward household clutter.
For more information, visit www.shopsmartmag.org.